Sunday, August 24, 2008
i smiled at 4:48 PM.
I guess it's really true...A few months back, perk, mel and me were talking about this topic which i insisted it was not true for me. A few months down the road.. i realised i have to take back my words for that.
The statement we discussed was " You will usually find your boyfriend/ hubby who is similar to your dad's traits, be it subconsciously or consciously, you like it or not." I was opposing this idea. I wanted someone to be like my brother. My brother is an Aries. I simply love the traits of Aries and happen to like guys in that horoscope. I think i love my brother somehow.. hahaha.. He is such a good daddy and hubby. *envy my sis-in-law* Eventually, i realised.. yes indeed i do love aries but i think i am more attracted to Gemini. Somehow something in them makes me wanna inch closer but it is definitely challenging because they have dipolar characteristics. Pretty interesting and fits into my 3 sec interest trait because they are always unpredictable. You know what.. my dad is a gemini. I am sure my dad is the most good looking and cool CID around! With his charisma, he is there to charm all the ladies but he has choosen the lucky one -my mama! muahaha.. Maybe, my bro is just following my dad.. n that's why i am misled by the traits. hahhaa..it's amazing how it happens but hello.. it's a subconscious thing. not like you are a gemini n i will definitely like you. It doesnt work that way. I will only realise it after i know someone..you get what i mean? hahaha. And i realise..I am good friends with Aries, Capricorn, Aquarius and Pisces. Believe it or not, it's kinda true somehow. hahaha *Shrugs*
Conclusion: Most of us will fall for someone who resembles our dad or mum.
Mel said, maybe that is why mother and daughter-in-law or father and son-in-law can never get along coz they are too similar. Muahaha.. well, i guess there is some truth in it.
The next debate question will be.. would you rather find someone with similar traits as you or someone totally different? What is your standpoint?
I prefer someone totally diff but has some common interests to start off with. So that we can build on the same goal and at the same time complement and learn from each other. hhaha..Coz if i find someone too similar, it wont last for long, it's the same as a stone hitting a stone. ahaha.. So i rather have a stone and water. Does it make sense?
